3 Dating Secrets for Empaths that make them IRRESISTIBLE

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In this video, I’m gonna share with you magnetic secrets that make empaths energetically irresistible. These are things that will increase your level of magnetism in your body.

These are also things that will help you feel more safe in your own body, safe in your own frame, so that when you’re dating, when you’re out there in the world, you feel your most
attractive and magnetic self.

Now, the first thing to understand about being an empath is first off, what is an empath? An empath is somebody that can feel and empathize with other people because they can really feel and tap into what other people are thinking and feeling.

And with empaths, they very much are tuned to other people. They can tune to other people’s thoughts, feelings, emotions and really feel into that. Now sometimes what happens with empaths is they believe that being an empath is a problem, or they believe that it is like bad, or it’s something like they almost feel like, “I’m too sensitive, I can feel too much and that makes me less attractive.”

Now, one of the things you want to understand about this is when we have an insecurity and we feel insecure about something, because we feel insecure about it, we project that energy out and then sometimes, we may even attract people that will manipulate that energy.

Because they will know that someone else tunes to someone else so they may use that and it might be manipulative. That’s why sometimes empaths attract narcissists. Because that energy dynamic is playing off of the narcissism that likes to control, the empaths find value in other people’s frame.

And that can be why that energy is attracted. Now, one of the things though about this to understand hen it comes to empaths is one of the most powerful things you can do with being an empath is to first off reframe what it means to be an empath and to know that if you own it, it will transform it.

So if we feel guilty or we feel like, it’s almost like if we had like a mole or we had something on our face that’s like a physical thing, it’s like imagine being shy and someone that’s shy feels guilty for being shy.

They feel like they shouldn’t be shy. Then they’re out in public and they’re worried they’re not saying enough or something. And then someone else says, “Why are you so quiet?” And they’re literally reflecting back the insecurity about being shy.

But if somebody were to own being shy and not care and not be attached to like what someone else thinks because they own it like, “I’m not loud as hell, bro.

It’s not that big of a deal.” Then that energy being emanated off of that person because they own it, it’s very less likely that someone’s gonna say something like that. Or even if they do say it, it’s not gonna affect you.

Now, whether it’s a freckle, whether it’s your height, whether it’s your eye, whatever it is, whatever that is, if you own it, it completely changes the level of magnetism. So one of the things I recommend you do is own this degree of empathy that you have and use it and think of it as a benefit.

Think of it as like a superpower. Now in a in a certain way though, I don’t wanna take this too far because I do believe there’s things to learn from being an empath. And we’ll talk about that in this video for sure. And I’m not saying it’s a problem.

At the same time, I’m not saying that it is the most powerful, like it’s not something to get too tied to as far as the identity goes. Because sometimes what happens is we’re then tied to the identity of being an empath and we stay tied to that and we have this like identity with being very sensitive and feeling everyone’s else’s emotions.

And that can sometimes work against us because then we feel like we’re a victim of our environment or a victim of other people. But if you were to own being an empath and just own that you may be more sensitive and not feel guilty or self-conscious or insecure about it, it will make your energy way more magnetic.

This works for everything, by the way, not just being an empath. This works for your height. It works for if you have freckles or something with your appearance or your personality. You just own it. And if you own it, other people feel that you own it and they respect that.

And the insecurity is just not feeling certain or not feeling like you’re gonna be accepted, but you can accept yourself. You can own it and that changes everything. Now, the second thing for empaths that make them irresistible has to do with learning how to hold your own frame.

This is probably the most magnetic thing you can do because you already have a part that a lot of people lack when it comes to relationships and dating and dynamics in general. And that is empaths are normally, generally very good at listening.

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