FCV096 Parenting and dating after divorce — Guest: Karen Bonnell
Parenting tweens and teens is challenging. They’re testing boundaries, just as they should at this age. And whether we like it or not, they’re frequently pushing back and trying to establish their own independent identity (interests/values/opinions) apart from Mom and Dad. That level of conflict is reality in most intact, stable, both-parents-married-to-each-other families. When a separation or divorce occurs and either parent is beginning to date, that’s likely to create extra challenges for teens and their parents. “Divorce or separation is a huge change,” says Karen Bonnell, family coach and author of “The Co-Parents’ Handbook: Raising Well-adjusted, Resilient, and Resourceful Kids in a Two-Home Family from Little Ones to Young Adults”.”This is a huge change and there’s often grief involved. So kids are recalibrating, trying to make sense out of something their parents have done that they have no control over.” Annie talks with Karen about how to parent your teen once you start dating again after divorce.
About Karen Bonnell (@karenbonnellcmc)
Karen Bonnell has over 30 years of experience working with couples and families facing transition, loss, growth, and change. Her work as a Collaborative Divorce Coach spurred her determination to write “The Co-Parents’ Handbook”. In this straight-forward, practical guide, parents learn the best ways to support their children, strengthen their co-parenting, and discover the necessary tools to skillfully create a two-home family. Karen’s other books include “The Parenting Plan Handbook”. Learn more at http://CoachMediateConsult.com.
About Annie Fox, M.Ed.
Annie is a parenting expert with 30+ years experience. She’s been an online adviser to tweens, teens and parents since 1997. Her award-winning books include: “Teaching Kids to Be Good People”, “The Girls Q&A Book on Friendship”, and the groundbreaking Middle School Confidential™ book and app series. More information about Annie at: http://AnnieFox.com
About Family Confidential
Family Confidential: Secrets of Successful Parenting is a weekly podcast about 21st century parenting joys and challenges. Hosted by Annie Fox and produced by Electric Eggplant, Family Confidential provides practical parenting advice through down-to-earth interviews with parenting experts, educators, therapists, and entrepreneurs. These recorded discussions help parents strengthen family connections by providing tips, child-rearing insight and practical tools for guiding your kids through the tween years and beyond. http://FamilyConfidential.com
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